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Buckner Training in the Lone Star State (by Rachael)

February 24, 2009

This past weekend, Nate and I packed up our carry-ons (no need to pay $15 to check bags!) and headed to Dallas, Texas to attend a Buckner Trip Leader Training Course. By attending this one day session, we are now officially ready to be volunteer leaders for Buckner trips!  As many of you know, our church (eXchange) already has the best possible trip leader (Jody), so we don’t anticipate leading groups from eXchange. However, by going to the training, we can now lead groups of friends and groups from friends’ churches (let us know if you’re interested!) as well as go down to Guatemala on our own through Buckner. 

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Apart from the training itself, we were glad we went because we got to meet the Buckner staff.  After having a strictly email relationship with people like Timeka, Susan, and Jouleen, it’s nice to meet them finally face-to-face!  And let me tell you, these girls are awesome.  They’re all young and fun and funny.  On top of all that, they did a great job presenting the info.  After hearing more about Buckner firsthand, I’m totally pumped about working more with this organization.  You know what I learned?  100% of all donations to Buckner go to ministry programs!  That’s unreal!  According to Charitynavigator.org, the American Red Cross uses 10.6% of its money for administrative and fundraising expenses.  And World Vision (another organization Nate and I support and recommend) allocates 14.1% to fundraising and administrative costs. 

 

How does Buckner do it? Well, in the late 1800s and early 1900s, the founder of Buckner, Dr. R.C. Buckner, bought land in East Dallas and when the value of the land appreciated, some of it was sold off and put into an endowment fund.  Today, money from the endowment is used to pay Buckner’s overhead expenses.

 

After the training, we got to take a quick tour of the Shoes for Orphan Souls warehouse.  This is where shoes come in from all 50 states and are then shipped out all over the world. 

 

 

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Since 1999, Shoes for Orphan Souls have distributed 1.6 million pairs of shoes and socks to children in 55 countries.

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The final highlight of the weekend was meeting up with our Texan friends Sarah and Jenna and their friends, Shane and Tamara.  They were awesome enough to drive 2 hrs. each way to come spend the night with us in Dallas!  We studied in New Zealand with Sarah and Jenna in 2005, and we love hanging out with them.  We look forward to them someday making a trip to the Midwest or one day meeting up again in New Zealand!

  

 

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Nate's first time at Rainforest Cafe!

(From L to R) Rachael, Nate, Sarah, Shane (Sarah's fiance!), Tamara, and Jenna

(From L to R) Rachael, Nate, Sarah, Shane (Sarah's fiance!), Tamara, and Jenna

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Leverage (by Nate)

February 17, 2009

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Most people have a seat-of-the-pants understanding about leverage from playground equipment.

Some people understand the physics behind the lever and have put it to great use.

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In the financial world, leverage has more of a theoretical application than a physical one. Someone who might only have enough cash to buy enough bread for a week’s worth of lunches might talk his kind banker into loaning him enough cash to make 14 lunches by telling her that he will sell the 7 he doesn’t eat to the banker’s husband, who obviously has more money than time (sugar mama!) and needs to outsource the making of lunches. But this post isn’t about marriage or gender roles in banking or even sandwich making. It’s all about leverage and in this case the person has used Other People’s Money (OPM) to accomplish something he couldn’t with only what he had.

Of course if our sandwich man had thought ahead, he could have circumvented being in debt to his banker by eating one less sandwich per week and saving the extra money to buy a field and plant some wheat to make enough bread to sell sandwiches all next year, but let’s face it, the guy’s got to eat and there may not be enough time in his lifetime to save sandwich money to buy a field and he could starve waiting for the harvest. Which is why the saying goes, “Give a man a fish; feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish; feed him for a lifetime.” rather than “Give a man some bread; feed him for a day. Teach a man to farm wheat; and he’ll starve before the first harvest.” (Maybe we should update the saying, “Give a man a dollar; he’ll buy a double-quarter pounder w/cheese. Teach a man to borrow money; and he’ll buy everything in sight.”)

Although it can be entertaining, the problem of not-enough-time is universal and quite sobering. All of our days are numbered and every day we step that much closer to the finish line. So how have people applied the concept of leverage to time? Use some that another person isn’t! I think Adam and Eve might have figured it out first. Since Adam was a busy man, Eve should have the babies, saving him valuable time that he could be farming and killing stuff for their next meal- a classic example of Other People’s Time (OPT). Okay, so it’s not exactly classic and maybe just silly, but you get the idea and hopefully haven’t fallen asleep.

Since this blog tends to focus on connecting people to God and His work in general (some of you may think it’s too loosely focused- I’m working on that…), it wouldn’t be on target without bringing it all to a close with:

Leverage Pertaining to God’s Work

Why not use OPM and OPT to accomplish some really important stuff? It’s historically significant that groups of people rallied together to build great things, but one thing seems to really matter to Jesus. In the Bible, Luke chapter 10, there is a story that gives a very important insight into Jesus’ view of what we do with our time and resources. And that leads me to conclusions about how to use my time and resources. But first the story:

As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”

“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”

Apparently, it was more important to Jesus that Mary spend time sitting at his feet listening to him than for her to take care of all the preparations that had to be made. He’s not saying that they weren’t important. I’m sure Jesus realized that everyone had to have a place to sleep that night, a warm shower, and fresh-baked Otis Spunkmeyer cookies with 2% milk. I know those things are non-negotiable for me.

But He told Martha that only one thing was needed and that was what made Mary’s choice better.

She chose the relationship over the task.

Now I suppose that this would seem like a clear choice to the guy who turned water into wine and made fish and bread reproduce like rabbits (and as the creator of the whole earth, he made rabbits reproduce like… well, rabbits).

But to get back to the concept of leverage, it seems that the previous examples, the speedy distillery and happy meal turned banquet feast, show Kingdom-sized solutions to problems that related to tasks that got in the way of people spending time with Jesus.

What resources were available to Jesus? Water. And some bread and fish . (Long John Silver’s anyone?)

What did Jesus leverage? God’s abundance.

Why hadn’t anyone else thought of this before? Jesus believed that the solution existed AND he had the audacity to order people to do what had to be done to put relationships over tasks.

I’ll admit that Jesus had the inside scoop on what God was able to do, but still he had to have known the impending awkwardness that comes from asking someone to do something they doubt will help the problem. And yet, I have to think that he also knew the delight that comes from seeing the light come on in someone’s head when they realize that what just happened was possible all along.

Jesus used other people’s resources (a.k.a. money) and their time to accomplish something I’m sure he could have done alone. But the key ingredient was the God-factor. I can’t explain it. But it seems like God suspends our understanding* of physics when people are seeking Him and doing his work.

Now that’s some crazy leverage that I think many in the business world wish they had (Madoff?) but ultimately just missed out on the greatest opportunity to multiply what God has given them.

So hopefully we can peacefully use other’s money, resources, and time to afford us the opportunity to sit at Jesus’ feet and listen as we put relationships over tasks.

Now, I think I’ll go grab a pop-tart that someone else made and I bought with someone else’s money:)

* I could go into a lengthy discussion about how God was merely speeding up some natural processes, something that we do regularly in all kinds of chemistry with catalysts, but that would have taken away from the direction this post was going, so I conveniently located this stuff down here with a little asterisk that is only mildly distracting compared to what it could have been. Sorry for distracting you, but I think it’s important to reason things out and actually think about the most difficult things- otherwise we end up in a cult of belief in things that shouldn’t be believed.

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Foreign eXchange

February 10, 2009

For those of you interested in hearing more about “Foreign eXchange,” read on for details.  Then comment or email if you have questions or would like to get involved.  For those of you who have already signed up, keep in mind that we need your letters a.s.a.p., and we’d like to have your gifts by March 1.

By now, you’ve figured out that eXchange has a thing for Guatemala.  Hardly a week goes by without some reference (an announcement, a story, a flier, a fundraiser, a picture on the screen) to Guatemala.  And why not? We talk about it because it’s a part of who we are. It’s part of the way we live.  It’s what we do as a community of people following Christ and serving in His cause.  True, we could be helping AIDS victims in Africa or prostitutes in Asia, but, for some reason, God keeps taking us back to orphans in Arm WrestlingGuatemala.  He’s put the orphans there on the hearts of the people of eXchange. So we raise money.  We give money. We pray.  We sell pizza.  We buy pizza. We fill bags with coloring books, crayons, and sidewalk chalk.  We go to Guatemala. We take pictures. We tell our friends, and then we sign up to do it all over again. 

And now, we’re doing even more.  Foreign Exchange is our chance to rock some orphans’ worlds.  Think of it like a sponsorship program (like World Vision or Compassion) but without the monthly fee and with a personal connection.  Think of it as your chance to make the unloved and unwanted boys at Eliza Martinez and San Gabriel feel things they may never have felt before, things like love and feeling special. What’s more, you don’t even have to go to Guatemala!  All you have to do is choose an “amigo,” write letters, tell him about yourself and your family, pray, and send small gifts. The goal is to do whatever it takes to let your friend know that there’s somebody out there who is absolutely crazy about him.  Sound interesting? Read on for details.

 

What exactly do I have to do?

Pray.  We’ll periodically give you suggestions relating to your boy or his orphanage, but the best thing you can do for him is to pray regularly for him and his situation.

Get to know your friend and let him get to know you. Tell him about yourself—what you do for fun, what kind of books you read, your favorite food—and ask about him.  Remember when you were in elementary school and you had a pen pal?  It’s kind of like that.  Congratulations. You just got yourself a new pen pal.

Be flexible.  There is an incredibly high San Gabriel--Aug. 08turnover rate at Eliza Martinez and an even higher one at San Gabriel, which is used like a juvenile detention center. In August, a group from eXchange took a picture of seven boys at San Gabriel.  When they returned in October, only two of the seven boys were still around.  To accommodate this, we ask that your first few notes and letters be very generic.  Address your boy as Amigo (“friend”) or simply start your letter with hello (or hola in Spanish).  That way, your letter can be given to a different boy if your boy is no longer around.  A good rule to follow: if the boy you choose has been at the orphanage longer than a year, there is a good chance he’ll be sticking around. 

Give small gifts.  The goal here isn’t to overwhelm your friend with material goods or make the other boys jealous. The idea is to let him know you’ve been thinking about him.  Try to keep make your gifts small enough to fit in a pencil box and under $10.

Tell your friends.  There aren’t enough boys at the two orphanages for everyone at eXchange to be hooked up with a boy, but we’ll be having drives to collect group gifts and asking eXchangers to help pay for the delivery of all our gifts and letters (i.e. pay for the extra suitcases going down with the teams).  There’s also a waiting list for when new boys come to the orphanages.

 

What don’t I have to do?

Habla español.  Although we’d like the letters to the boys to be written in their language, we’ll help you out by providing you with Spanish phrases to use in your letters or do the translating for you.  100_35821However, if you know Spanish (or are comfortable using an online translator), by all means, go for it!  It doesn’t have to be perfect.  The boys will get the idea and appreciate your effort.

Send money or big gifts.  Don’t worry; there’s no monthly fee or even a one time donation.  The emphasis here is on relationships.

Go to Guatemala.  Of course, if you want to go and meet your boy face-to-face, that’s cool, too.  Email Jody (jody. elslager @ gmail. com–no spaces) for info about upcoming trips.

 

“As one wise observer put it, ‘Children need more than food, shelter, and clothing.  They need at least one person who is crazy about them.’”

 

Quoted in Dr. Gary Sibcy and Dr. Tim Clinton’s Why You Do the Things You Do: The Secret to Healthy Relationships